Spiritual guidance for couples focuses on clearing the way for problem solving and deeper connection by changing the nature of the conversation. Fear, anger, blame, shame and other painful emotions cloud our ability to behold one another with love and care as once we did. This always happens! But relationship is a powerful spiritual practice in itself!  It requires us to learn new ways of seeing and communicating in which we hold one another's needs and our own as equally sacred and precious. My work with couples focuses on spiritual practices which build this capacity. There is no more rewarding way to live!